Is anybody out there?

The real question is: Is anybody in here? Well, yes I am still here... Have you been thinking that I might never be coming back to the blog world? ... I kinda was. Things have been busy around here and I don't even know where to start...how bout here:

Hailey started preschool!! She is on her second week now. Here is a picture of her on her first day...



And of course little brother Hayden had to tag along to big sisters first day of school, backpack and all. I think he would have been quite content to stay there! But I explained that his time would come...




..and then I scooped him up and hurried to the van with tears in my eyes as my baby girl started her first day of school... and when we got home I snuggled Hayden extra close, knowing that he would be not very far behind her....






Ok... what else has been keeping me away? ... Job hunting! And guess what? I finally got one!!! YAY! Praise Jesus on that one! I will start working at a law firm in Parsons next week and I am pretty darn excited! I am nervous too of course, I have been home with the kiddos for three and a half years now and handing over their care to someone else is a bit nerve racking, but for the best interests of our family as a whole it is necessary for me to go back to work and start contributing to our finances (or lack thereof! :) But as always, God has been faithful to us through this process of ups and downs, he has always provided for our needs.

So, what does full time work mean for Wright Photography you might ask? It just means that scheduling will have to be a little different and more limited sessions. I will start scheduling mostly weekend sessions, which means they might fill up quickly as people start to think of getting in to get Holiday pictures and Christmas cards done. I will try to keep you posted on when things start to fill up so that you can make sure to get in for your family portraits or milestone sessions. I will be getting holiday pricing and specials together soon and you'll see it here first of course!!

Oh, that reminds me.... Studio flooded... again! Yes, I know, that's just what happens when you use your basement and you get five inches of rain in one night!! But I really thought we had the problem fixed after last time... guess not! So, everything is in disorder, I got most of the things off the floor, so nothing was ruined.... This weekend I have to get down there and mop and put everything back together and in it's place... fun fun... :~)

Since I am going back to work, I am going to miss my bible study and dear bible study friends! But, I have found an alternative: A book club!! I know, I know, who has time for a book club right?! Well, you do!! And I do!! We just need to make time for it! If you look on the right sidebar of my blog you will see a button that will take you to Bring The Rain, Angi Smith is it's author and I JUST LOVE HER! She is so in love with Jesus and is a true testimony of how God can use your heartache and despair to bring Him glory and bring people to know Him. Anyway, she is starting a book club, the first book is called Crazy Love: Overwhelmed by a relentless God By Francis Chan. It officially starts on September 13th, (which gives both you and I plenty of time to get the book!)... if you want to know more about it just click over there -> on her button and join in on the fun! I have already read the first chapter through Amazon.com and I cannot wait to read more! It is exactly what I need right now. I have been, in my study time, consentrating on learning more of who God is as I try to draw closer in my relationship with him. I was put on this earth to I love him (more), and you love someone more by knowing them more intimately. So, I am very excited to get started with this book!! I have heard that you will never be the same after reading it, and that is EXACTLY what I am looking for!! Never being the same! I need that!!! I am sure I'll be talking about it here again once I start reading... so look for my Crazy Love posts!!

Well... I think that might be all I have for tonight. Sorry, I don't have any sneak peeks because I haven't had a session in the last week or so... but so I don't disappoint those that came here looking for pictures... I will leave you with one of Hailey from a while back when I let her play in my new petti skirt!!



Have a great weekend everybody!! And go pick up that book!! :))

Blessings,
TeReSa

Mini Senior Session

This is Shelby... She is a senior that came in to get a couple of headshots done for Queen Neelah. Keep an eye out for the rest of her session- we'll go do the on location 'fun' stuff probably sometime in October!

(in)courage winner!

I won! Do you remember the other day when I did a post titled (in)courage? Well, there was a contest to win a t-shirt and out of 250 other blogging sisters in Christ, I won one!!! I'm so excited! So, if you didn't head over to check out their site that day, go check it out today, it will bless you!

Sneak Peek!

Let me introduce to you, Truman Neal. The new addition to the Grzybowski family!! He was such a good boy through all the torchure of undressing and posing him! And whats even better, is I got to snuggle with him after all the hard work was done! I so love my job!! So, enjoy this little sweet pea, I sure did!!

Verse of the day...

"Don't worry about anything; instead pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done."

Philipians 4:6

This one is for me especially today... I have a job interview at a Law Firm @ 11:30... I won't worry. But you better believe I'll be praying!



Blessings,
Teresa

Some collages for Gma!!

{8x10 collage $25}

{10x10 collage, $35}


{10x20 storyboard $50}


{8x10 collage $25}

(in)courage

What encourages me?

Words. Words encourage me. HIS Word. Words sung. Words spoken. Words whispered. Words strung together in stories and books. Words broken up in the mouths of young babes. Words written, on paper or on your heart. Words hold a promise, a promise that met paper thousands of years ago, and holds true now and to eternity. Sweet promises of hope, of grace, of mercy and love.... heavenly promises. Words can rip and tear the flesh- sometimes it is our very fleshly nature that needs torn, needs exposed and cleaned. Words can build up, edify, and lift you right up to the clouds. Words can also destroy, and discourage... Words are all we have. Words of love. Words of want. Words of need. Words of promise. Words of faith. Words of mercy. Words of hope. Words of wisdom. Words of consequence. Words as sharp as swords. Words as sweet as sugar. Words wet with tears. Words dripping with pain. Words dry and broken from desert places.

Words are songs, even if only to the person singing them. Words are poetry even if only to the poet that wrote them. I used to use words to try heal heart wounds, my hurts. To try to understand more what I could not process in my heart or mind... so I would sit down and put my pen to paper and the words would flow... like my heart bleeding on the page... and sometimes it would spill onto the floor. The words would poor out of me and the mix with the tears that washed them clean, washed me clean. No one can take your words from you- once spoken, once written it just IS. Can never go back to not being- can never go back to never being spoken... once it leaves your lips, once is becomes ink on paper to form your feelings... it is there, good or bad to be recorded and reconned with.

Whispered words. Loud words. Slow words. Prophetic words. Words of blessing. Words of praise. Words of salvation. Words of encouragement. Words of validation. Words of sympathy. Words of truth. Words of light. Words of kidness. Words of compassion. Words that keep on giving. Words of redemption. Words of healing. Words of anointing. Words of justice. Words of soverienty. Words of teaching. Words of yours. Words of mine. Words of ours. They can build up, and encourage, they can show love, and mercy, bring hope and healing. Or they can tear down, they can decieve, discourage, they can kill and destroy. They are power. There is power in the word- especially the spoken word. Use them wisely... it may be all you have.


For more stories on encouragement or courage go to: www.incourage.me

Blessings,
TeReSa

Oh my heavens!!!

Is this little blue eyed angel not enough to just melt your heart? Well, you might know that it is miss Ally... but as you've never seen her before! We did the second half of her session today. Just her and I... we went OUTSIDE! But then it started to rain, so we will have a part three to get the petti skirt outside shots. But here a a few for you to see. Thanks Ally-gator, it was a blast hanging out with you today!!

What is most personal....

What is most personal is most universal. Or so they say. I hope that's true! That is the reason for the previous post.
I have a few mommies already signed up for the Mommies Anonymous 'support group', or 'club' or 'night out'... am not sure exactly what to call it yet, but we are up to five members so far! I am thinking our first night will definently be within the next couple of months, either September or October, so stay tuned for more details on that.

And if your wondering what kinds of things we will be doing at our 'MA' meetings, it WON'T be a gripe session about kids, dogs or spouses! Oh, no. We are taking the mommy name tag off at the door (literally) and will have strictly girl fun! I am thinking so far of things like: A bowling night. A movie night. A game night where we play board games. A pajama party night where we order in pizza and come in our pj's. A manicure/pedicure night.... and these are just to name a few. I'm thinking of a recipe exchange, and there will be door prizes each meeting. There is also going to be a fun twelve step program to go along with the name ( only much more fun and fitting to our addiction- family) and there will be a Mommies Anonymous Logo and newsletter. Oh yes ladies... I was not kidding when I said we were going to do this thing!! And if your going to do it, you might as well do it up right!!!

~TeReSa

Mommies Anonymous!!

All those many years ago I saw it in my mothers face. . . She looked scared, over powered and overwhelmed and I knew then that she was on the brink of it… of going out to the grocery store and never coming back… and she is not the leaving kind- she is the sticking it out kind, but I saw something in her eyes that I cannot put into words- way past exhaustion, way past weary, way past the point of superwoman. As a child I feared that look, feared it because I was afraid to be left by my mother- abandoned and part of the cause to boot. As a child I had no idea just how scary it was… for her…. But now I do. I am now a mother, and the look in my eyes, and the feeling in my heart is one of desperation and exhaustion and needing something for myself, just one small piece of something, or a piece of someone that might be left over at the end of the day for me. And I am more scared of that look now than I ever was before… the thought of my mother’s breaking limit is so much less real than the thought of my own. Because this is my happily ever after… THIS IS IT. My husband who loves me and provides for our family, my beautiful, healthy children… my family- in it’s safe little cocoon that I have built where they are safe from harm, safe from all things in this world that break down the family and harm the tenderhearted. And all is right in the world at the Wright house…. Kids are washed, and fed and put to bed…. Husband is also well fed, well groomed, well trained, and sleeping, there is finally quiet in my day…. And there comes with it the hole, the lonliness… the emptiness that I didn’t think you were supposed to feel when you are a mother. All the years I prayed for a child, even just one, all the years I prayed for a family to make me whole, to give me purpose, to fulfill my role… and here I am with that scared look in my eye like a trapped animal feeling underappreciated, underestimated, over stimulated and overworked…. I have lost sight of myself completely. And I am guilty of feeling that is just what good mothers do. I am the martyr , the saint, who give and don’t expect to receive, serve and be happy serving…
So I serve baby cereal to the baby, pancakes to the toddler, and prozac to mommy monster that I have become. The mother that can’t get through the day without a happy pill and a Dr pepper. The mother that wishes she could have a break even for just a second without someone needing her, or needing her services. Just one second with no one crying, no one screaming, no one needing to be fed, changed, nose blown, the DVD changed, or can’t find their binky…. Needing a minute that’s not breakfast time, nap time, play date time, Dr apt time, movie time, game time, baby doll time or snuggle time…..

I have found myself in the closet twice in the last two weeks… the first time I was trying to hide from everything in my day, in my life, including a bad hair cut that was just the very last straw of what I could take that day…. So I locked myself in the bathroom, then in the bathroom closet and turned the lights off, and the music up and cried… trying to drown out the noises of my life- my husband at the door, my kids in the background asking for mommy…. And the voice in the back of my mind that says I am being selfish, that I need to suck it up, wipe my face and get out there and fix my family dinner.
The second time was just last night as I was trying to have an adult conversation on the phone and someone decided to have a complete two year old meltdown over her baby doll stroller hang up and I just went and found a closet with some room in it, slid in and shut the door and kept on talking…. Hiding from the noise, the fit, the inevitable truth that it will still be me that has to fix the problem whether I come out of the closet in twenty seconds or twenty minutes….

I went to college ya know. I have a favorite song, favorite movie, and a whole list of books I would love to read if I had the time, and I had some very simple things I would have loved to have had for Christmas, but no one asked.
…. I have hopes and dreams and fears and insecurities and a whole list of complaints for management! I have questions and need answers, I have hurts that need healing and I have some suggestions for the husband suggestion box that never gets opened, much less read. How can I say in one breath that I am so blessed and so happy with my life… and turn around and say that I need more, that I don’t feel complete, don’t feel that I am getting my needs met, not getting what I need to be able to continue on serving, loving, and surviving? How does that happen? I don’t know but it does, I believe those two statements are true in my life…. And I think they are true for a lot more other mothers than I realize (I hope I am not the only crybaby)



So were do we go? When we have lost ourselves? Where do we go to find what’s missing? Where do we go to catch a breath? To catch a break? You know, US- the mothers of the year, superwoman moms, the Martha Stewart/Rachel Ray cocktail of a mom that gets the laundry done, the meals prepared, the kids dropped off and picked up and keeps everything running as smoothly as it possibly can in a realistic home….. We need a support group… Mommies Anonymous-

Hello- my name is Teresa Ruth Wright, I am the mother to two beautiful and perfect children and I feel guilty as hell that I am not June Cleaver or super mom or perfect in any way as a woman or as a mother… and for this time together I am going to enjoy not being called MOMMY… the shop is closed, the nursing bra is off, the apron is off, the sweat pants and the ponytail… all gone tonight. I am taking a 'mommy minute'… with my fellow mommy friends that love their kids, love their husbands, but need to remember how to love themselves……


So… Wanna join my club?



PostScript:

This was written months ago and I didn't intend to share it, possibly ever, but certainly not publicly... but the Lord has laid it on my heart that maybe Mommies Anonymous should really be. I am in the planning stages, but so far I am thinking of one Saturday a month for mothers of small children, all children, to get together for a night of clean fun where we shed the aprons and the spit rags. Whether you have one child or six, a single mother, a working mother, a stay at home mother... the more I talk with my friends, my aquaintances, other mothers as a whole, they say they understand all the feelings I described above. And we are really good at putting ourselves last, and not taking time out for ourselves, because that's just what mothers do.... There is either no time, no money or no energy left.

So, if you are interested in 'Mommies Anonymous'... please let me know, leave me a comment, shoot me an email.... And feel free to pass this on to your other mommy friends, and see if they might wanna play too? I've got some big ideas and I am excited to put some of them into action.....

So- May God bless you on this Monday, and I'll see you back here tomorrow with a picture post!

TeReSa

Quote of the day...

"A woman's heart should be so hidden in Christ that a man should have to seek Him first to find her." ~Maya Angelou

...sigh... I'm so in love with this little guy....

"A boy is Truth with dirt on it's face,
Beauty with a cut on its finger,
Wisdom with bubble gum in its hair,
and the Hope of the future with a frog in its pocket."

-- Author Unknown





Have a great weekend!
TeReSa

Picture of the day

That's all I got for now, but it's enough isn't it? Aren't they precious?

Blessings,
Teresa